Two solitary souls

When, you meet your soulmate loneliness sounds like a nightingale!

I always wonder what the two lonely people do when they meet?

Do they just sit silently and gaze into each other’s eyes?
Do they make the most noise?
Or, do they spend time alone with one another?

Once upon a time, in the jungle, there lived a rabbit named “Muffin.” He prefers his own company and, despite his best efforts, he is never able to relax in the company of others. He gets annoyed by his own behavior at times, yet he also feels at peace with himself. He is often perplexed as to why he enjoys being alone but is unhappy when he is. Some other animals held a full moon party one day and invited Muffin as well, stating that everyone must attend or the king lion will eat them. Out of fear, Muffin went to the party and sat in the corner, watching other animals eat, dance, and sing, and then he tilted his head upward and saw the full moon shining brighter without stars, Muffin smiled and moved his head over to his left side, where he saw a baby bear (Tubby) eating berries while sitting under a tree. Tubby gave Muffin a smile when he spotted him looking at him, and Muffin returned the smile, feeling good and approaching Tubby to sit alongside him. Tubby gave him some berries, which he accepted, and the two of them ate them while gazing at the moon. Even though they didn’t say anything to each other that day, Muffin felt nice just sitting next to Tubby. The next day, they gathered at the same place to sit alone and eat. This goes on for several days, and they spend the most of their time together; sometimes they chat too much, and other times they just sit silently; quietness is something they both enjoy. One-day tubby asked muffin “how many friends do you have?” muffin replied “no one”. , tubby smiled and after a pause, he said don’t you ask me? muffin replied “hmm because the answer is the same”, tubby smiled brighter this time and then they start enjoying the berries again. Muffin still likes to be alone but this time he was happy being alone because he founds another loner tubby with whom he enjoys being alone.

The opposite is also said to attract humans, as it does in physics, and I’ve seen this in movies and heard from many people since my childhood. This may be true, but you know what, Sometimes all we need is a person like ourselves who is our mirror and sees right through us, who can understand us and even silence sounds like a deep conversation with him.

Liking solitude is a nice thing, but if you have someone with whom you are pleased and who enjoys solitude with you, then believe me, God has blessed you with the ultimate bliss.

Silently watching the world around you with someone,

People call it boring, but I think it’s the best peace anyone could have.

With love,

Sakshi❤️

Bandages

Not every wound heals shortly, some stays with us for a long time…

I used to believe that things heal completely with time, that they don’t hurt even a little after some time has passed, but today when someone mentioned something bad that happened to me in the past, I felt a kind of ache somewhere in my heart, and it feels like it still hurts somewhere, that it hasn’t fully healed.

Have you ever had a similar experience? Many of us, I believe, did. But why aren’t we able to recover from certain of our afflictions? Why are they still in pain? What are we going to do with them if they don’t get better?

We wrapped them in a bandage.

Yeah, some things really touch us from the inside, and we can’t just get over them even after a long period, so we just place bandages of hope on them and hope for the best. We never fully recover from the scars that some situations, terrible relationships, failures, or close ones have inflicted on us; instead, we simply want them to stop hurting us as much as they did before, so we put bandages on them.
When those things came back in front of us or when someone mentioned them, we still felt the anguish of breaking trust, the pain of someone departing without cause, the pain of hoping for love and acceptance, and so many other forms of sorrow that are related to that wound.

Worst of all, we hand over the responsibility of protecting those bandages to someone new who enters our lives. Sharing is fine, but entrusting someone else with the burden of protecting your wounds or bandages is not. If things go bad with that person, or if that person leaves you, you’ll be left with nothing but unbandage wounds and one more wound to bandage.

There is a phrase that says you should never give someone else the key to your happiness; similarly, you should never give someone else the right to protect your wounds; it is your obligation to protect them in order to make yourself happy again. Yes, some things will never entirely heal, but we may strive to prevent them from hurting us again by wrapping them in sturdy bandages. Along with the bandage of hope to heal, we can apply the bandage of happiness and strive to learn from our painful past whenever it resurfaces.

Life is not an easy game, and one thing I’ve learned over the last 20 years is that we must accept responsibility for our joys, mistakes, and successes. Only in this way we will be able to prevent, not completely, but to a considerable part, adding fresh wounds within ourselves to heal.

With love Sakshi❤️

Comforting lies

In the fog of lies, the beam of reality was there but we ignored it!

Ever get into a situation when you have that feeling that the person in front of you is lying but you don’t want to hear the truth either because you fear that it can ruin your happiness or your bond with them?

Ever get into a situation when you feel like whatever things are going on is wrong but you don’t want to make them right either because you fear, it can affect you present, your happiness?

Ever get into a situation when you want to clear things with someone but you can’t because you fear that you will loose whatever you have with them either by clearing things and ultimately your happiness too?

Noticed something?

Yeah you guessed it right! It’s our happiness and pleasure that stops us from seeing reality, accepting reality, accepting truth. The lies some people tell us are so comforting that we start lying to ourselves. Our true self continuously give us hint that something wrong is going on but we get so indulge in the things that we completely ignore those hints.

Choosing happiness is not wrong but choosing it at the cost of lies is really something that makes you suffer more in the future.

You know what’s the real danger is? It’s that if we hear enough lies, then we no longer recognise the truth at all. Those lies start comforting us in such a way that they become la la land for us that we don’t want to leave.

But hey there! I know may be you are facing the same thing, may be you are doing this for your happiness too, but for how long? One day reality will hit you so hard on your face that you might not even be able to handle. You know what, nothing is right or wrong in this world it’s us who choose right and wrong for ourselves. Whether or not anyone else stays with you but your instincts they are always be there with you and gives you hints about right or wrong. LISTEN! Yes listen them they will not comfort you with lie rather they will introduce you to that reality which will give you real long term happiness instead of fake short term pleasures.

My dear, stop hallucinating and start accepting reality.

Wish you real long-term happiness and peace.

With love Sakshi❤️

Little Things

It’s the little things in life that brings big  happiness 🌻

Just got a text from my mum “had your lunch?” And I got a full cherry smile on my face, even though it was rough tough day but this lil care make the big difference and brought smile on my face.

There are many things in our life that are so little or u know common we can say but yet so special… These little things are like rose petals that one by one can make life a big beautiful rose flower. And you can make whole garden from them trust me haha.

It’s in our human nature that in search of big things we often ignore small things, some wishes to have that someone special who bring flowers for them but in that mean time they are ignoring that one stupid yet loyal friend who share his chocolate with them. We wait for someone’s reply to our text whole day and ignore the one who spare his time to call us. We want top grades in our exams and meanwhile ignores the learning that we are gaining by participating in other activities.

Hey there.. i know you get depressed some time or things don’t go in your way sometimes but trust me in your life too there are some beautiful little things on which you are not paying that much attention… Try to see them and feel them, trust me you feel more than happy and grateful. Problems will always be there, disappointments never leaves us but that doesn’t mean we start living in despair…. Even in the biggest disaster there are somethings that can make you feel grateful about.

List of things that can make someone feel good:

Texting your friend if they reached home safely or not can make them feel protected.

Talking to your elders and listening them can make them feel valued and comfortable. (It can makes their day too).

Offering food to street animals can make them and you both happy and grateful.

Listening to someone who is not feeling good can make them feel free and relieved.

Offering candy to a kid can bring smile on his face which can makes your day.. tadaa

And try this one for sure, give head massage to your mum, trust me she will give you Hundered and thousands of blessings even if you didn’t do it well, she will feel valued and loved and that eventually makes you happy too. (You can thank me later for this haha…)

These are very few you know, There are many more Little good things that you will find in your life once you start paying attention to them and living them.

With love Sakshi ❤️

Knock knock it’s love again

Giving a chance to love, getting a chance to live❤️

And it started again…. The days are getting long and nights are getting short.. its winter again, its love again… Getting butterflies again yess i think its love again. Smiling on texts, getting blush on face when someone says that person’s name, lost in the air of honey again and yess its love again.

But then comes the horrible picture of bad experience with love in past and my mind asked is that trap again? The fights, the crying nights, my pillow asked are those nights of tears again? Surrounded by betrayals, eyes full of disappointed tears, my eyes asked are those disappointments again?

The fight starts between mind and heart…

And then life said let’s try again, let’s live again..

And this is something that happens to all of us when we starts feeling love again after so long for someone. We scare to trust but we do not scare to love, actually love is something that we can’t control, it just happened. We start getting feelings for someone, we start connecting our happiness to that one person and they become our whole day. Its feel like the connections are already there but timings are late.

Trusting is not easy after getting betrayed many times, but we can give a try. It’s better to experience something new again rather than getting isolated in a safer game. Whatever we gonna choose, it comes with something good as well as bad, but,

Hey! One more chance again, let’s love again.

And yess don’t forget to love yourself.

With love Sakshi❤️

Backside Fear

I choose experience over fear!

What if i fail? What if people laugh at me? You know what these are some questions that we all have in our mind before taking up any challenge in our life, and we call it Fear.

But is fear is wrong, is it shows us weak? I think no, because Once a college student who was terrified of getting up and saying his name, Warren Buffett was able to overcome his aversion to speaking in front of others by facing his fears head on. Fear is not something that is only with you it is with us almost every one of us.

But the question now is how to overcome it?

Yes, it’s not easy but at the same time it’s not that much difficult. You know what there is a saying that friendship remove every bitterness from life and fear is like our enemy then why not we make courage our friend and even best friend so that where ever we go he will follow us there, be with us at every point of life no matter we fail or succeed but that first negative stage of fear will not gonna stop us in living the new experiences because we have our best friend courage with us.

Also focusing only on results and thinking about others thoughts on us are some things that brings feeling of fear in us, STOP focusing on them and start living the experience that every challenges and opportunities brings to you.

It’s not that much easy but Hey! It’s not that much difficult…

Courage is knocking your door please let him in.

With love Sakshi❤️

Nyctophobia by Taliban

Taliban has took control in more than 60% of area in Afghanistan, again coming with their strict sharia law which they think is the will of god. Laws are made by humans on the name of god and people like these(taliban) impose them heartlessly on innocent peoples. For them humanity do not even exist. They see everyone as a mere slaves who will do whatever they want them to. From killings to attacks, the chaos in Afghanistan is increasing day by day.

And again the dark era is likely to come for the girls in Afghanistan. In the week leading up to their return to power, the taliban’s leadership have strived to portray a softer image than when they last ruled Afghanistan between 1966 and 2001. The violence with womens, their struggle for education are again likely to come there. Women like Malala Yousafzai who was even shot on her head by taliban gunman, fight too much in past years for girls education and now again womens in Afghanistan are likely to face same situation ( many from there writes about the same in social media).

Youth are in immense danger there, just imagine monsters ruling the area where you live, you don’t have any idea what’s going to happen next, your future seems foggy to you. In past years also according to reports many youngsters are influenced and threatened by taliban army in order to join them and become like them. They are becoming stronger day by day because of more people especially youth are joining them willingly or unwillingly.

This has to be stopped, otherwise it will become big disaster for the whole World. The world is divided into countries but still we all share the same planet, same sky then why not help each other. Country like india helped the people(hindu and sikh) in Afghanistan to come to india but what about the others who left their they are humans too, just imagine the situation where every breath you take become uncertain, every moment is filled with fear of death, people there are feeling the same thing.

God is one universal power and is same for everyone, hope everyone will understand this and wish for people in trouble.

With love ❤️
Sakshi

Thanks you’re Beautiful

Beauty is beyond appearances

Remember the day of your date when you are all dressed up, hair properly combed, make-up on and perfume set coming to your partener and he/she calls you “BEAUTIFUL”. Another day you looked cool and someone or the same person called you “BEAUTIFUL” again. And now you want to look perfect everyday so that everyone or anyone around you will call you “BEAUTIFUL”.

But hey there, why are you taking that much load on yourself to look perfect, cool everytime to be called beautiful. Is appearance is all that makes you beautiful? Is expensive clothes,shoes and accessories or make-up are all that defines beauty?

Definitely NOT!!

So let’s change the definition of beautiful, Intelligence is beautiful, being Educated is beautiful, Kindness is beautiful, Confident is beautiful, Supporting and Helping others is beautiful, Achievements are beautiful and all the things that makes you and others Happy are beautiful.

Beauty is in everything and everything that you have is beautiful. People only considered appearance as something that called beautiful but appearance dulls down with time but our achievements and our qualities that we have as a person never fades away they always remains with us.

So why not when some one help us , makes coffee for us, in a metro hold a seat for us, outside the cafe help in picking up our stuff, instead of just thank you we starts replying “Thanks you’re Beautiful”. It will surely change the whole idea or perspective of beauty. And you will find whole new definition of Beautiful on Google which not just include appearances in it.

Always Remember the World will change only when you will change

With love Sakshi❤️

The Cycle Story

Whichever road you would take you yourself have to ride ..

When I was a kid I wanted to learn to ride a bicycle. Sometimes my friends help me to ride and other times my brother but those one day lessons didn’t helped me that much. And I always complain that either the bicycle is very big for me or they are not teaching me well.

Then later I stopped learning until I came in my highschool and saw that all my classmates knew how to ride a bicycle even some knew bikes also. And then i decided to learn and urge my father to bring me a one, as old one was sold out when we shifted to a new place. Papa bought me a brand new bicycle. And this time again after one lesson that my father gave me i started complaining that this bicycle is too big or this or that. At that time no one in my family have that much time to teach me riding and i didn’t want to learn it from my friends because of the fear of humiliation. so one day i go to my papa and start complaining that how am i gonna learn this alone, this bicycle is too big for me, no one have time for me , what am i gonna do, then papa said, “if this really matters to you, you will surely find a way”, and then left. At that time i was angry at him but later on whenever i thought about riding i remember his words and then after some time i alone in one or two week learned to ride a bicycle by practicing daily on my terrace by holding the wall.

That was just a bicycle you know some kids can learn it in just 3 to 4 days but i want to share a lesson that i had learned behind this whole thing.

Consistency, self-efforts and Complainless nature are must we have to indulge in ourselves in order to learn something. We can’t learn something in just one day we have to maintain that consistency throughout the whole process. Always depending on other for learning not gonna help us.Sometimes we ourselves have to put efforts and move our ass hard to get what we want in life.

With love sakshi ❤️

Love is Love

Two years back I met a guy in a coaching class later on we became good friends. One day we are discussing something and in between our conversation I mentioned that I has a huge crush on our quant teacher and I like him afterwards he said he likes him too and also has a crush on him. Then i said ” what?, Really!! I mean are you into boys” then he confidentially said “Yass”. At that time I felt in some kind of different way but later on I thought of this and realise that what is that much different here, we both had a same kind of feeling for a same person, that feeling is common here and why I considered my feelings normal and his not, it’s just a feeling and any one can have it.

And then I realized that love is not bind by a gender it is something that is beyond everything. We can have a feelings for anybody in this world. Being a gay or lesbian is not a mental disability/illness as many people consider it, No! It is not, love can never be a disease. Abusing someone, cheating, having drugs, hateness etc are something that is mental illness not love. Love can never be a disease instead it is something that heals us.

No matter if you are into a men or a women, it is normal, what is unnormal here is cheating on your partner or ditching them. Whosoever your partner is men/women, love them by your heart and have a guts to say in public how much you love them, kiss them, hug them , celebrate your love with them.

And whenever someone ask you that if you are a gay/lesbian don’t over react just answer them confidentially “Yes” if you are and if you are not then just say “No”. It’s not a question of humiliation or something abusing just consider it as a normal thing because may be a person around you who is actually a part of LGBTQ community may feel scare to talk about his feelings in future by your reaction.

Love is something that unite every person in this world whether it is towards a male, female, transgender or someone else. Resepct it!

President Obama, during his two terms from 2009-2016, declared June as the LGBT pride month each year. But why only june, love is something that has to be celebrated every day every time, because Love is Love❤️

Happy pride month💙❤️💚💛🧡

With love sakshi ❤️